Autonomy
Freedom from Co-dependence
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In trauma terms we call the one with dependencies the dependent and the people who are close to them, co-dependents. This sounds simple enough, right? Dependent and co-dependent. The dependency binds them together.
Sam was continually being passed over for promotions because she was too nice. Sam hated confrontation, would do anything to avoid making people unhappy with her. She would find herself agreeing with things she didn't really agree with to keep the peace.
Jessica had to look after her friend and put her first. Always. Even when it was inconvenient. Don’t get me wrong, it’s good to look after your friends.
Michael had a big, big problem? He was overcome with love for someone that wasn’t available. He wouldn't accept that she was happily married.